How Can I Ever Change?

If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? My problem is choosing just one thing… At least by next Sunday I should be wearing different glasses. I had an eye test on Friday and need a new prescription. But I felt like changing my image too. So I hope you like the new frames. It’s the new me. Some things we long to change. Others we don’t want to change. This Summer I turn 60. Apparently my children want to celebrate. I don’t particularly. This hit home a few months ago. I was on a London tube train during the rush hour, carrying a rucksack. An Asian gentleman got up and offered me his seat. I didn’t know what he meant to begin with. Then it dawned on me. That was the first time anyone has ever offered me their seat. I felt acutely self-conscious. Ageing is an irreversible change. We can deny it, resist it, botox it, liposuction it, hide it, disguise it, colour it, ignore it or, we can accept it.

Rick Warren says, “A life that is never willing to change is a great tragedy – a wasted life.” That’s because God actually wants us to change. Because change is a necessary.

Change is an inevitable part of a growing spiritual life. We need to change continuously to become like Jesus.

How Can I Ever Change? from Stephen Sizer on Vimeo.

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Chinese Translation of Seven Biblical Answers

A Chinese version of  Seven Biblical Answers to Popular Zionist Assumptions, based on my book Zion’s Christian Soldiers is now available.

The Chinese version was kindly translated by Lo Yuk Fai. Presentations in Chinese were delivered recently for Macau Bible Institute, Sawtow Christian Church Hong Kong and All Saints Cathedral, Kowloon.

See more photos of recent visits to China here

See also:

Seven Bible Studies : Seven Biblical Answers : Seven Biblical Answers Video

How Can I Cope with Stress?

Unless you benefit from annual winter breaks in the sun, January is not necessarily a month we look forward to here in the UK. The long-range Met Office forecast invariably predicts cold and usually wet weather. It is still dark when you get up, the days are short and summer seems light-years away.

Add the usual pressures and stresses of a post-Christmas hangover, especially when the credit card bills drop arrive, and it’s easy at this time of year to run out of emotional energy.

For most of us, the weather and time of year just makes us feel low, vulnerable to colds or just plain irritable. For some it may become clinical. Whatever you call it … depression, “burnout”, or “the blahs”… it is an inescapable warning light that something is out of balance in our lives. The cumulative effect helps explains why three our of four of us visiting our GP tomorrow will do so for stress-related reasons. Whether you are an unborn child, a teenager, a mother, a city slicker, or well and truly retired, stress is the number one issue we face.

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How to spend Christmas Day with Jesus


What are you planning to do tomorrow? Beyond the predictable. You get extra Brownie points if you make it to the 8:00am service tomorrow at the Methodist Church in Cabrera Avenue. Imagine what it would be like to spend Christmas Day with Jesus. To have a one-to-one with Jesus for the whole day. Imagine. What would it be like? Special? Memorable? Life changing?

If it were possible to spend an ordinary day with Jesus, then there could be no more appropriate day than Christmas Day – the day we celebrate his birthday.
Is it possible?  When the angel visited Joseph he said of Jesus, “And they will call him Immanuel – which means ‘God with us.’” (Matthew 1:23). God with us. Think about that.

And one of the last things Jesus promised his friends was this: “I will be with you always.” (Matthew 28:20) “I – will – be – with – you – always. Always. God with us – always.  If God is with us, always, then perhaps we need to give more thought to how we can consciously spend the day with him – in his presence. What would a day with Jesus look like? How would it be different?  I suggest it would be filled with the things Jesus would do.  What would happen if you were to spend the whole of tomorrow doing everything the way Jesus would? In Jesus name?  In Jesus presence?

In what way would it be different? In order to live every moment of an ordinary Christmas day with Jesus, we have to begin the day with him. Right?

Here’s a multi-choice quiz to get us started. When does Christmas Day begin?

  1. At midnight
  2.  When the kids wake up
  3.  When lunch is ready
  4.  After the Queen’s speech
  5.  At dusk the night before

The correct answer is: At dusk the night before.  The bible tells us in Genesis 1:5, “There was evening, and there was morning – the first day.”

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An Unexpected Journey this Christmas

Far over the misty mountains cold.
To dungeons deep and caverns old.
We must ere break of day.
To seek the pale enchanted gold.

Is that a line from

A. Nativity 2?
B. James Bond?
C. Life of Pi?

The correct answer is
D. The Hobbit.

J.R.R. Tolkein’s fantasy takes place in “Middle-earth.” Middle Earth is not some never-never land. It is simply an adaptation of the Old English Middle–erthe from Middan-geard which is the name inhabited lands “between the seas.” Which means, in some profound sense Tolkien’s intended his fantasy world to be a mirror, or reflection of our own. So what has a fairy story about elves and dwarves got to do with Christmas? Lets try and find an answer through three riddles. Continue reading

How to Enjoy a Stress Free Christmas

How to Enjoy a Stress Free Christmas from Stephen Sizer on Vimeo.

The Good news is, the world did not end on Friday. According to the BBC “Scientists have done their best over the past week to reassure us that the end is far from nigh, but on Friday survivalists and doomsday cultists prepared to take their final stands in forests and on mountain tops around the world.

The latest outpouring of apocalyptic angst mixed with fatalism has been fuelled by the belief that the 5,125-year-old Mayan Long Count calendar predicted that 21 December 2012 would be the earth’s last. In truly British stiff upper lip style, Druids said they expected larger crowds than normal at the annual winter solstice event at Stonehenge.

NASA scientists have said for years that there was no need for alarm. Because of Hollywood films like 2012, NASA has been inundated with calls as the doomsday rumour took grip and the final day approached. To reassure the fearful, NASA produced a four-minute video entitled ‘Why The World Didn’t End Yesterday’ and published it online ahead of time. By Friday it had already been viewed more than five million times.

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How Can I Serve with Full Devotion?

Please make yourself comfortable.  Now please cross your arms. Not hard was it? Glance down and notice the position of your hands and arms.  O.K. Relax, unfold your arms. Now I’d like you to do it again. But this time, put the arm that was underneath on top and the arm that was on top underneath. In other words, reverse your arms. Got it? I can see some of you are having difficulty. It wasn’t as easy to do this time, was it? Did it feel awkward? Uncomfortable? You really had to think about it. The first time it was natural, it didn’t require any thought, because that’s your preferred way of doing it.  We each cross our arms in a certain way, and no arm crossing technique is right or wrong, good or bad. They are just different.  And arm crossing is typical of just about everything we think and do.  That is my first point.

1. Recognise our Unique God-given Personalities

“As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said.” (10:38-39)

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Why does God allow suffering?

A couple of months ago I experienced some of the worst pain in my life. I know the scientific reasons why I was suffering but that didn’t make it any easier.  If God wasn’t going to answer my prayers I felt like I wanted to die.  When the pain had gone I changed my mind. Christians struggle to keep their faith when confronted with setbacks or illness or death.
The problem of suffering is therefore a question we have something with our friends. The answers we find should help us as much as them. Our culture finds the issue of suffering a huge problem. The presence of pain and evil in the world is used by atheists to question the existence of God. David Hume, the philosopher put it like this:

“Is he willing to prevent evil, but not able? then he is impotent. Is he able, but not willing? then he is malevolent. Is he both able and willing? whence then is evil?”

Here is how C.S. Lewis frames the dilemma,

‘If God were good, He would wish to make His creatures perfectly happy, and if God were almighty, He would be able to do what He wished. But the creatures are not happy. Therefore God lacks either goodness, or power, or both. This is the problem of pain in its simplest form.’ C. S. Lewis, The Problem of Pain

When someone poses the issue in roughly these terms I invite them to reflect on why they even ask the question. If there is no God, there is no meaning or purpose in anything, no right or wrong, no good or evil. There are no answers because there are no questions. The very fact that people view suffering as wrong indicates that God has put that thought in their minds. We have a deep seated vision of what the world should be even if we are short on solutions for putting it right. Perhaps underlying our culture’s attitude to suffering is the assumption that we each have a right to unbroken health, happi­ness and well-being throughout our lives. Anything that infringes this right must be an evil, and it is the responsibility of a good God to remove all evil from us. If he fails to do so, something has gone seriously wrong.

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Serving: What has love got to do with it?

What has love got to do with it? from Stephen Sizer on Vimeo.

Yesterday our daughter, Louise was married to Hillman here at Christ Church. They are beginning a new life together in Hong Kong. It must surely be rare for parents with three beautiful daughters, to have them all get married in the same year.  I was in South Sudan recently. My hosts were in awe at how wealthy I must surely have become as a result. In Dinka culture the father of the bride receives many cattle in exchange for each daughter. I had to explain that our society was not as enlightened and that I would probably have to wait until Michael gets married before starting my herd.

Our reading today is 1 Corinthians 13, the famous “love” chapter. It is probably most widely read at weddings. True, it is indeed the most beautiful description of love in the Bible – yet the context of the passage is not about marriage. The context is clear – I Corinthians 13 is sandwiched between teaching about spiritual gifts in 1 Corinthians 12 and chapter 14. Why is that? Because, like marriage, Christian ministry is not primarily about gifts and talents, its about serving in love.

These three chapters explain the relationship between the gifts of the Spirit and the fruit of the Spirit. In this series on service and on Pledge Sunday, I want us to consider our motivation for all that we do. What is driving us – really driving us? What is our motivation in giving? In serving? I have three headings:

Love is Essential in Service (12:31-13:3)
Love is Expressed in Relationship (13:4-8)
Love is Evidence of Maturity (13:8-13)

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